WORLD’S BEST TEACHER

Who is the world’s best teacher? There are so many teachers we have come across in our lives, right from kinder garden to our post graduation. Every single teacher has taught us a particular subject and also with the subject a few life lessons. Those life lessons are the unforgettable lessons of our life.

We all have come around various teachers in our lives. Every teacher has a way of teaching and that makes her unique from the others. We all have a favourite teacher,don’t we? And that favourite teacher always resides in our hearts and her blessings have been showered on us always, no matter how distant we might be.

What do you think is the name of the world’s best teacher? Is he/she the world’s most famous teacher? Have you guessed the teacher’s name by now? The answer to all your questions is the world’s best teacher has a one-word name. Every single person on this planet earth dislikes his/her name and has come across him/her atleast once or many times in their life. Who is it?

Is the suspense over? The mystery is yet to be solved. According to me, the world’s best teacher is failure. Yes, you read it right. Its failure. We all have encountered with failure atleast once in our lives, but do we ever treat is as our teacher? No,we don’t think of it this way. We always think of failure as just passby period( *which isn’t a bad thing). But I think that failure is the world’s best teacher, because failure teaches you a lot of things when it approaches you in life.

When we fail at something in our lives, we feel bad(*which is a natural human tendency), then we try to understand the reason why we failed in the particular task, we find reasons for our failure. We slow and steadily accept the fact that we have failed and go deep in the problem and understand what are the mistakes we have committed and we study our mistakes. We learn from our mistakes and decide never to repeat them again and then we start again. Thus,failure teaches us a lot of things, like reasoning our problems, finding the cause of it and then figuring out soultions to deal with them. It gives you the courage to accept your own mistakes, learn from them, improve in life and become a better version of yourself. Every time we fail, we learn a new lesson.

Failure is the world’s best teacher (*according to me) and it teaches us the most valuable lessons of our life. It helps us grow mentally stronger in our life. I think that we get to learn and make oursleves better from every single failure we face.

If you have survived till here,Congatulations. Here’s your reward : A proverb,which says

“FAILURES ARE THE STEPPING STONES TO SUCCESS”.

Thank you so much for reading my work. It really means a lot to me. Keep supporting and Keep smiling. Stay home,stay safe and stay tuned.Take care.

If you have any suggestions regarding my blog, any queries related to my blog or you wish to connect with me, you can contact me through the Connect with the real persever page.

SIMRAN TOTLANI

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REFRESH,REBOOT AND COMEBACK

Helloooo everyonneeeee (*in an over-excited tone),

How are you all doing? Its been a really really long time, feels like woke up from the dream today. I was on a long long break, to refresh my blog and reboot my thoughts. I missed you all, my wordpress family the most. You guys are the best. I really missed reading all of your wonderful blogs. Hope you guys missed me too?

       Thank you so much for always being supportive and showering so much of love to my blog. It really really means a lot to me.I am going to start posting blogs now on, this was just the trailer.

LITTLE THINGS WE MISS

What are the little things we miss every single day? Readers must be thinking, it would be one or two basic tasks, every single person forgets something or the other. I partially agree to readers but I am not just talking about tasks, its about little bits of happiness we fail to witness in our present moments.

We have got so busy in our lives. Some people are stuck with work, some with studies,some are bound by difficulties and many more reasons to justify our busyiness. In the era of social media, people upload tons and tons of their smiling photos. But is the smile behind the screen real? I think its easy to act happy and pretend things on social media but difficult to be happy from within.

Often we show the world that we are happy, but are we really happy? I believe that happiness comes from within, it can’t be pretended. Becuase if you are pretending,then you aren’t just fooling people around you, but yourself as well.I think one should have the attitude of gratitude, little things to apprecite and empathy towards other people and you reach halfway there. I think that if you are happy,then you can make people around you smile.

One should have gratitude, because its keeps us grounded and down-to-earth from within. There are so many little things which we miss in our day to day lives, which if we start noticing can make a huge difference. We should start appreciate people for their efforts. For example: Appreciate your mom for the food she has made and then see the happiness on her face, it will give you a sense of satisfaction and happiness from within.When you appreciate someone, he/she feels good and it boosts their confidence.

Another example, compliment someone. If you notice someone around you and he/she is wearing a nice top. Give him/her a compliment and in return you get a happy face. These are the bits of happiness you will get if you start appreciating little things around you.(*Plus this has another advantage : If you compliment someone, the other person would feel happy that you notice them.)

These are the little things we usually miss. The message I want to convey through this blog is that we should start appreciating little things in our lives, always be thankful for whatever we have in our lives and have empathy.

Happy to know that you have survived till the end. Here’s your reward on reading the blog completely. There is a quote said by Abraham Lincoln:

“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.”

Thank you so much for reading my work. It really means a lot to me. Keep supporting and keep smiling. Stay home,stay safe and stay tuned. Take care.

If you have any suggestions regarding my blog, any queries related to my blog or you wish to connect with me, you can contact me through the Connect with the real persever page.

-SIMRAN TOTLANI

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LET IT GO

Why Let it go? Some readers reading this might have this question in the head. We can’t let go of every single thing. My answer to all the readers who are thinking this question in their brains is very simple. I partially agree to you that you can’t let go of everything but you can let go of some things which you have been holding in your heart for a long long time.

We face so many problems in our day to day lives and hold on to minor or major things or previous griefs. Although we act in front of the world that we have moved on and its not affecting us anymore. However some where down the line it is affecting us and we know that. You can lie to the world for once, can you lie to your inner self? No,right. I agree that the situation you are currently in is very complicated and nobody can be in your shoes and feel your pain. But the more you hold on to things in your heart, the more heavier you feel on the inside. We all have our good as well as bad times in our lives. Remember you are the person who has fought with the problem so bravely and has reached this point. I know its not easy for you. Just take a minute and ask yourself this one question, “Can I go back to the past and change the situation?”. You will get an answer from your inner self by asking this question,the reason you should let it go.

The choice lies in our hands, either let it go and feel happier,lighter on the inside or let it be inside you forever and you feel sad whenever you think about it.

What happens when we let go? It feels lighter on the inside and you feel like somebody has taken a heavy weight which was placed on your heart. You boost your self-confidence and your heart is again filled with hope.

The message I am conveying through this blog is don’t let things stay inside you. Just let it go and you will witness the changes happening in your life.

And if you have survived till the end.Here’s your reward.A quote by Tony Gaskins:

“If you can’t do anything about it

THEN LET IT GO.

Don’t be a prisoner to things

you can’t change”

Thank you so much for reading my work. It really means a lot to me. Keep supporting and Keep smiling. Stay home,stay safe and stay tuned. Take care.

If you have any suggestions regarding my blog, any queries related to my blog or you wish to connect with me, you can contact me through the Connect with the real persever page.

-SIMRAN TOTLANI

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SMILE-WITHOUT ANY REASON

Do we really need a reason to smile? All the readers must be thinking, obviously we need a reason to smile we can’t widen the curves on our faces insanely all day. I partially agree to readers its right we can’t smile the whole day, not the whole day but we need to live those little moments of our day with smile.

We, human beings living in the 21st century have got so much engaged in achieving our dreams and goals, working hard for them (which is not a bad thing). At times, we get highly stressed thinking about what is going to happen in the nearby future and in the mean time, the curve on our face fades away.

We are so busy discovering our happiness only by the means of achieving something. But why are we missing on the happiness which is already filled in the process?When we achieve something we become happy and some positive chemicals get released in our brains. So we work on our dreams and goals of life, day and night  and we think that we will become happy after we achieve them.By then we will have our pockets filled, the curve will automatically become permanent on our face. Don’t you think we miss the little chunks of happiness in our daily life-moments?

So, right from the beginning of the day till the end we run from one place to another, for our jobs. Students study for hours and hours in coaching classes, in order to secure their seat in a good college. For our betterment of our future, we try to search for more better and better universities, where there is a high chance of our placement. But in all busy and fussy schedule, we have forgotten that our beautiful curve on the face is missing. The curve on our face isn’t just a curve, it’s an ornament which God has gifted to each and every human being to wear it in his/her life. With that curve develops a confidence in heart and we can face problems and deal with them in a better manner. I believe that if you smile, you can bring smiles on many faces surrounding you because smile is infectious. The little curve on your face can make someone’s bad mood turn into a good one and it will create positive vibe in your surrounding. The icing on the cake and the most powerful advantage of smile is it can help you impress the one you want to get impressed. This beautiful-gifted curve on your face has so many advantages.

In this time of pandemic, where we are facing lots and lots of difficulties and the situation is tensed. At this time, we should smile and deal with the problems. Smile creates a hope in our hearts and gives a sense of satisfaction to our soul.

Good to know you have read the blog till the end. So, here’s your reward on reading the blog completely. There is a quote said by Chris Hart which says:

“All the statistics in the world can’t measure the warmth of a smile”.

Thank you so much for reading my work. It really means a lot to me. Keep supporting and Keep smiling. Stay home,stay safe and stay tuned. Take care.

If you have any suggestions regarding my blog, any queries related to my blog or you wish to connect with me, you can contact me through the Connect with the real persever page.

Also,don’t forget to check Aastha Dhir ‘s blog. She has an amazing blog, filled with lovely artworks and awesome write-ups.(*NOT A PROMOTION)

-SIMRAN TOTLANI

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WORLD’S BEST GIFT

What is the world’s best gift, according to you? Readers reading this will answer : It depends upon on the person you are giving the gift to. So you tell us about the person’s likings and dislikings and we will gift him the best possible gift accordingly. I would agree to all the readers who are thinking this.

We human beings always gift our loved ones the best possible gift. For e.g., it could be a watch, a purse, a book,accessories,etc. No matter how good your gift is but its a materialistic thing (*P.S. I am not against the materialistic gifts). According to me, the world’s best gift is the gift which will always have a special place in your loved ones heart, i.e the time you dedicate to them. Yes, my dear friends world’s best gift is the time that you dedicate to your loved ones. Because no matter how expensive or how cheap a gift is, the person will always remember the memories you have made with them. At the end of the day, all the materialistic things won’t be buried with you. Materialistic things will remain with you throughout the life-time however when you recall the memory of a person,you start recollecting all the memories you have made with them, the time you have spent with them.

The lock-down is going on currently and we are sitting in our houses. I strongly believe in this saying,“Everything happens for a reason”. In this situation, all we can do is spare a few minutes from our busy schedules and call our loved ones and talk to them and remember the memories we have made together(*visit the flash backs once again).

Thank you so much for reading my work. It really means a lot to me. Keep supporting and keep smiling. Stay home,stay safe and stay tuned. Take care.

If you have any suggestions regarding my blog, any queries related to my blog or you wish to connect with me, you can contact me through the Connect with the real persever page.

SIMRAN TOTLANI

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IT’S A MENSIVERSARY

Hello Everyone. Its my first mensiversary, meaning the first month anniversary of my blogging journey. I am really really very happy to celebrate this small victory with eveyone. I am whole-heartedly grateful to each one of you, for giving my blog love and support. I am thankful to each one of you who has been a part of my newly started blogging journey.

When I look back I remember, I was so excited and nervous at the same time when I started My Blog, The Persevere of Life on 22nd March 2020. Its been an amazing  journey to connect with such amazing people(*who are reading this currently and also the ones who liked this seeing the big length and leaving it unread(*I am kidding about the second case as most of the ones read my blogs,don’t you?)).

A million thanks to each one of you for supporting me in my blogging journey. I know I have not being posting blogs regularly but I will be improving sooner and try my best to post often. Don’t forget to let me know your views in the comments section everytime I write a blog because it opens my mind and helps me in understading various perspectives.

Thank you all for all the love and support that you gave me in this one month. It really means a lot to me. I think blogging is a journey through which I got to connect with various people. To each and everyone who is reading this, its my pleasure to connect with you with the help of this wonderful platform.

I also thank Wordpress platform for giving me this opportunity. Since you have survived till the end,here’s your reward : A quote by Ella Fitzgerald which says:

“Just don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do.Where there is love and inspiration, I don’t think you can go wrong.”

Thank you so much for reading this blog. It really means a lot to me. Keep supporting and keep smiling. Stay home, stay safe and stay tuned. Take care.

If you have any suggestions regarding my blog, any queries related to my blog or you wish to connect with me, you can contact me through the Connect with the real persever page.

-SIMRAN TOTLANI

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